Kwan is one of these athletes. "Growing up, my family didn't not have all the financial resources other skaters did," she recalls. "My family had to be scrappy—my mom handmade my costumes. I wore used skates and borrowed costumes at the elite level. Even though my parents had to work multiple jobs to put a roof over our heads and food on our table, my parents were determined to give me the opportunities I needed to get to the Olympic stage. We didn't have the resources as others, but my parents didn't let that get me down—and if anything, that made me feel empowered because I had this great support system behind me."
She now uses her own story as a means to connect with young, would-be competitors who face similar circumstantial obstacles. Her advice? "To not let other people's judgments get in the way," she says. "You can only control so much, so you need to focus on the aspects that you can control rather than what you cannot."
Because when you do make it, those differences ultimately fall away. "It's a unique experience, competing at the games," says Kwan. "Athletes share the same space—the Olympic Village, the opening and closing ceremonies—and we come from different backgrounds, but we share the commonality of wanting to do your best and compete at the highest level."
Monumental athletic ability aside, it's a lesson worth remembering as viewers, too.
Next up: Nastia Liukin opens up about what life is really like after winning an Olympic gold medal.