It’s also helpful to create a standard of acceptance, or a barometer that helps you decide when to say “yes” or “no.” When faced with an opportunity or situation she’s unsure about, Hirsch considers two things:
“1. If that event/opportunity/party was right this second, would I want to do it?
2. Would this seriously improve mine or someone I love's life?”
Everyone’s barometer may look different. If you’re focused on building a business you may be seeking exposure; if you’re intent on testing your comfort level socially you might challenge yourself to go to events outside of your normal routine. Plus, you can always change your standard as life evolves. The most important thing is that when you’re faced with something you’re uncertain about, you keep your key priorities top of mind and let them guide you.